2010
01.24

The Rave

The Rave
It’s interesting going to a rave. A party where everyone is guaranteed for everybody to be on drugs. And mostly happy drugs like extacsy, or “molly” a powdered version of MDMA that doesn’t last as long, and doesn’t leave you feeling as rough. Others choose acid, or xanax, or whatever, but usualy that’s because they couldn’t get a hold of the “club” drugs. I went thinking, that I would have some beer, maybe pop a klonopin(a benzodiazapam, simialr to valium or xanax). I took one and pre-gamed a few beers, I figured I would be asking my partner in crime.
I told him we needed baby sitters. We used to do that, have baby sitters when we knew we were getting totally wasted, he was going to be rolling.
However once I arrived, I realized we were the baby sitters, the drug vetrans(marines in the field), a couple 25 year olds who have been eating various psychotropics since we were 16. The average age at the club, was probably 16 until 12 anyway.  My buddy scored me some molly, and after scoping the place out I realized that I was in no danger. I was more in charge of myself fucked up, more than these kids could ever be.
Not to say I didn’t violate a few fauxpauxs, like bringing my perscription bottle out in public to give people k’s. It’s not bad to give people k’s just bad to flash the bottle when the police are around, and they were. One person left in handcuffs, it was suspected he was the molly distributer. I didn’t get a good look.
For the most part I had a euphoric time and behaved myself and everyone was friendly. I treated it as a conference and would introduce myself to people and they would introduce themselves. I would ask them what they do, meaning occupation, but usually got resposnses like “Sitting here”, “Enjoying myself”, or “uhhh”. I should have taken the hint that this was not the way to behave at a rave. It wasn’t until one answer, that I became disheartened and start trying diffrent methods. I introduced myself, and asked what someone did, he said “I work at Wendy’s”. I felt bad, I mean sure he was probably only 16 or something, and that’s respectable, but again, it made me realize I was the old man. I’m the wolf in sheeps closing, trying to be a vegetarian.
All the girls were friendly and I even propositioned dates, and got turned down….a lot. but it was a really positive experience for the most part. This one girl approached me, and she was like, I like the look of you guys, referring to myself and my partner in crime. She then asked what I thought her age was and I said “22″, she laughed her ass off. She said “I’m 14″. I got a kiss or two on the four head…when you’re on ex that doesn’t really mean anything except maybe you have a bumpy forehead and the girl wants to know what that feel slike on her lips.
So at 11 the crackdown began, which means they kicked out the supremely underaged….and kept the semi-underaged he looked good. The started to sell beer at this point, so I bought a sparks at sat down. This girl who had been hanging out with me an my partner and was a good companion was pretty fun. My buddy said she kept saying she likes geeky guys and maybe I should ask for a date or something. Having a little molly left in my system I did, I did it as eloquently as I could. I was rejected. It was nice. But the molly pretty much dried up then. I began chugging sparks and eating k’s like there was no tommorrow. I convinced my buddy it was time to go. He brought two girls home with us. When I got home I drank a beer, took another k and passed out. I don’t know what they did, but apparently the girls left at 6am.

It’s interesting going to a rave. A party where everyone is guaranteed for everybody to be on drugs. And mostly happy drugs like extacsy, or “molly” a powdered version of MDMA that doesn’t last as long, and doesn’t leave you feeling as rough. Others choose acid, or xanax, or whatever, but usualy that’s because they couldn’t get a hold of the “club” drugs. I went thinking, that I would have some beer, maybe pop a klonopin(a benzodiazapam, simialr to valium or xanax). I took one and pre-gamed a few beers, I figured I would be asking my partner in crime.

I told him we needed baby sitters. We used to do that, have baby sitters when we knew we were getting totally wasted, he was going to be rolling.

However once I arrived, I realized we were the baby sitters, the drug vetrans(marines in the field), a couple 25 year olds who have been eating various psychotropics since we were 16. The average age at the club, was probably 16 until 12 anyway.  My buddy scored me some molly, and after scoping the place out I realized that I was in no danger. I was more in charge of myself fucked up, more than these kids could ever be.

Not to say I didn’t violate a few faux pas, like bringing my prescription bottle out in public to give people k’s. It’s not bad to give people k’s just bad to flash the bottle when the police are around, and they were. One person left in handcuffs, it was suspected he was the molly distributor. I didn’t get a good look.

For the most part I had a euphoric time and behaved myself and everyone was friendly. I treated it as a conference and would introduce myself to people and they would introduce themselves. I would ask them what they do, meaning occupation, but usually got resposnses like “Sitting here”, “Enjoying myself”, or “uhhh”. I should have taken the hint that this was not the way to behave at a rave. It wasn’t until one answer, that I became disheartened and start trying different methods. I introduced myself, and asked what someone did, he said “I work at Wendy’s”. I felt bad, I mean sure he was probably only 16 or something, and that’s respectable, but again, it made me realize I was the old man. I’m the wolf in sheep’s clothing, trying to be a vegetarian.

All the girls were friendly and I even propositioned dates, and got turned down….a lot. but it was a really positive experience for the most part. This one girl approached me, and she was like, I like the look of you guys, referring to myself and my partner in crime. She then asked what I thought her age was and I said “22″, she laughed her ass off. She said “I’m 14″. I got a kiss or two on the four head…when you’re on ex that doesn’t really mean anything except maybe you have a bumpy forehead and the girl wants to know what that feel slike on her lips.

So at 11 the crackdown began, which means they kicked out the supremely underaged….and kept the semi-underaged he looked good. The started to sell beer at this point, so I bought a sparks at sat down. This girl who had been hanging out with me an my partner and was a good companion was pretty fun. My buddy said she kept saying she likes geeky guys and maybe I should ask for a date or something. Having a little molly left in my system I did, I did it as eloquently as I could. I was rejected. It was nice. But the molly pretty much dried up then. I began chugging sparks and eating k’s like there was no tommorrow. I convinced my buddy it was time to go. He brought two girls home with us. When I got home I drank a beer, took another k and passed out. I don’t know what they did, but apparently the girls left at 6am.

2010
01.21

Some People Are Islands

Some people are Islands.
She had never been quite right. But her mental stability ebbed and flowed. She was molested and beaten as a child. Forced to do strange things, not even of a sexual nature. Just weird acts that seemed unnatural. But that wasn’t the only thing that was wrong with her. That wasn’t the root cause. She clearly had other mental issues, not stemming from child hood tramua.
As a teen she acted out occasionally in outbursts but for the most part was calm. She kept herself together the best she could. When she was totally falling apart she internalized it, as much as could be done. After graduating high school she got a job working at a fast food chain and put her self through a community college, again off and on seeing various psychologists and psychiatrists. After that she took out loans for college. She graduated with a degree in Literature.
After that she started seeing doctors pretty regularly. As stable as she could.
He had come into her life two months earlier. At that time, she was just pulling her life back together. She had found some medication that was finally keeping her stable. She was able to hold a job, editing letters and other paperwork for a local lawyer’s office. Things were still tough and she was still a wreck, but she was finally getting things together.
He was weird and perfect. He never graduated from any school but was incredibly knowledgable, he knew how to hold her. He couldn’t comfort her perfectly, but he could comfort her in such a way that, she though maybe no one else could.
She cried everyday, and he didn’t care. When she rolled over the thought of the myriad of prescriptions she took, there was alway a duality there. Are these things destroying me? Are they taking my personality away. Can I live without them? What do they really do to me? She fought these thoughts off mostly with how well she was doing, at this moment. That it had in fact been the medication that was keeping her “stable” and alive.
On several occasionas he expressed he understood the nature of her, back and forth hatred of the medicine’s she took. He would even try to organize side effect charts and possible effects, and suggestions for the doctors. He only did this when he thought she might actually be receptive to these sorts of conversations, which was rarely.
They would talk deeply about Keroack deeply, something they both enjoyed. Sometimes Faulkner and Plath, more of her favorites. Middle of the road, were things like J D Salinger. But when it was his turn it always turned to Burroughs or Bukowski, though she didn’t like the lowbrow styles, she enjoyed his passion.
Most of the time she didn’t want to talk. But she did want to hear, and not just background noise from a tv or a radio, but something real. He picked up this early on in their relationship(?). He would talk about Aristotle, and his criticism’s thereof, never once siting his sexism or political incorectness. He spoke about Socrates as a crazy schizophrenic. When they were both feeling particularly morbid he would talk about Mengele’s attempts to change the eye color’s of “patients” by injecting chemical’s into them. He spoke about Hadrian’s wall, and tha appalatian trail. About how Estonia was full of hacker children
She knew he had never left the country, and detested hiking. She had never seen him read a book. He worked at a local grocery store stocking shelves.
As far as he knew her only living relative she kept in contact was her sister. They rarely talked and when he overheard the conversations, they sounded more like check ups.
“Are you taking your medication”
“Of Course”
“Are you ok”
“You know how I am”
“I just want you to be ok.”
A few days after that phone call they were walking down the sidewalk. A mangy but somewhat adorable puppy approached them, he looked down at it and said, “Hey little guy, where are you from?”
She responded, “Don’t end a sentence in a preposition.”
He chuckled “So what do you have a copy of Strunk and White under your bed?”
“Quit it, quit it, quit it” she screamed.
“What?”
“You never went to college, you shouldn’t say things like that.”
“…I’m sorry, I uh…”
“Nevermind, just nevermind” she screamed and ran off.
He was confused, but decided the best action was to let her cool off, he would call her later tonight.
Later that night he made the phone call…She didn’t answer, he was concerned.
He hadn’t heard from her by the next day, after completing his shift he headed over to her apartment. He knocked, no answer. He slipped his debit card in the door, jiggled the handle until he could open it. There was no sign of her. He went to the bathroom to wash his face, and that’s where she was. Wrists and throat slit by a double edged razor. He called 911 as though it would do any good.
He and her sister, were the only attendees at the funeral. Her sister asked who he was. He said “I think I a..was her boyfriend.”
“Why did she do it?”
“I don’t know, there was a note”
He handed it to her, it said:
“He’s not real.
I’m crazy.”

Some people are Islands.

She had never been quite right. But her mental stability ebbed and flowed. She was molested and beaten as a child. Forced to do strange things, not even of a sexual nature. Just weird acts that seemed unnatural. But that wasn’t the only thing that was wrong with her. That wasn’t the root cause. She clearly had other mental issues, not stemming from child hood trauma.

As a teen she acted out occasionally in outbursts but for the most part was calm. She kept herself together the best she could. When she was totally falling apart she internalized it, as much as could be done. After graduating high school she got a job working at a fast food chain and put her self through a community college, again off and on seeing various psychologists and psychiatrists. After that she took out loans for college. She graduated with a degree in Literature.

After that she started seeing doctors pretty regularly. As stable as she could.

He had come into her life two months earlier. At that time, she was just pulling her life back together. She had found some medication that was finally keeping her stable. She was able to hold a job, editing letters and other paperwork for a local lawyer’s office. Things were still tough and she was still a wreck, but she was finally getting things together.

He was weird and perfect. He never graduated from any school but was incredibly knowledgeable, he knew how to hold her. He couldn’t comfort her perfectly, but he could comfort her in such a way that, she though maybe no one else could.

She cried everyday, and he didn’t care. When she rolled over the thought of the myriad of prescriptions she took, there was always a duality there. Are these things destroying me? Are they taking my personality away. Can I live without them? What do they really do to me? She fought these thoughts off mostly with how well she was doing, at this moment. That it had in fact been the medication that was keeping her “stable” and alive.

On several occasions he expressed he understood the nature of her, back and forth hatred of the medicine’s she took. He would even try to organize side effect charts and possible effects, and suggestions for the doctors. He only did this when he thought she might actually be receptive to these sorts of conversations, which was rarely.

They would talk deeply about Kerouac deeply, something they both enjoyed. Sometimes Faulkner and Plath, more of her favorites. Middle of the road, were things like J D Salinger. But when it was his turn it always turned to Burroughs or Bukowski, though she didn’t like the lowbrow styles, she enjoyed his passion.

Most of the time she didn’t want to talk. But she did want to hear, and not just background noise from a tv or a radio, but something real. He picked up this early on in their relationship(?). He would talk about Aristotle, and his criticism’s thereof, never once siting his sexism or political incorrectness. He spoke about Socrates as a crazy schizophrenic. When they were both feeling particularly morbid he would talk about Mengele’s attempts to change the eye color’s of “patients” by injecting chemical’s into them. He spoke about Hadrian’s wall, and the appalachian trail. About how Estonia was full of hacker children

She knew he had never left the country, and detested hiking. She had never seen him read a book. He worked at a local grocery store stocking shelves.

As far as he knew her only living relative she kept in contact was her sister. They rarely talked and when he overheard the conversations, they sounded more like check ups.

“Are you taking your medication”

“Of Course”

“Are you ok”

“You know how I am”

“I just want you to be ok.”

A few days after that phone call they were walking down the sidewalk. A mangy but somewhat adorable puppy approached them, he looked down at it and said, “Hey little guy, where are you from?”

She responded, “Don’t end a sentence in a preposition.”

He chuckled “So what do you have a copy of Strunk and White under your bed?”

“Quit it, quit it, quit it” she screamed.

“What?”

“You never went to college, you shouldn’t say things like that.”

“…I’m sorry, I uh…”

“Nevermind, just nevermind” she screamed and ran off.

He was confused, but decided the best action was to let her cool off, he would call her later tonight.

Later that night he made the phone call…She didn’t answer, he was concerned.

He hadn’t heard from her by the next day, after completing his shift he headed over to her apartment. He knocked, no answer. He slipped his debit card in the door, jiggled the handle until he could open it. There was no sign of her. He went to the bathroom to wash his face, and that’s where she was. Wrists and throat slit by a double edged razor. He called 911 as though it would do any good.

He and her sister, were the only attendees at the funeral. Her sister asked who he was. He said “I think I a..was her boyfriend.”

“Why did she do it?”

“I don’t know, there was a note”

He handed it to her, it said:

“He’s not real.

I’m crazy.”

2010
01.20

“Really I’m never happy I’m just surving” I said.

“Well yeah”

“So you’re always happy?”

“I guess”

“I mean I’m crawling up this steep mountain and I’m fighting it tooth and nail…I’m misreable”

“Well I guess I’m not happy, I just hope for happy”

“Like one day, after your done with school, everything will just change, you will hit some sort of happy plateau”‘

“Wow, really?”

“Yeah”

“Man that’s life changing let me write that down”

Writing it down I showed it to her, it said
“Strive…no, hope..the plateau is coming”

“Yeah it will be there”

“Wow that’s life changing, I’m going to try that.”